To My Single Mom Entrepreneurs... How do you stay organized?

Single mom entrepreneurs, how are you managing your organization with kids and business life?

To all my single mom entrepreneurs… How do you stay organized?

I‘ll go first😂.

1.) I don’t stay organized, lol. It’s nearly impossible when you have little ones depending on you and have their own lives😩. Unless you have a tribe of people who can assist you with this.

2.) I prioritize what’s most important at that time.

3.) I prioritize time with my kids

4.) I prioritize working on my business & my kids understand this as well. I make sure I communicate what I am doing, my goals for myself and us as a family.

5.) I keep a To Do List ( this is prioritized as well). But this is essential as a single mom boss because sometimes I have brain farts😩😂. So this keeps me on track.

6.) I understand that there are things or tasks that can be done at a later time.

7.) I don’t stress over the small things. When there’s a problem I look for the solution and be done with it. This allows me to move on to the next task.

8.) I enjoy the moment!

✨Being a single mom entrepreneur can be stressful at times. It is essential to find a balance. Understand there will be days you feel as if you can take on the world and other days it feels as if the world is on your shoulders. Be encouraged, regardless of the days do your best to show up, give your best and prioritize what is needed at the time. Sometimes rest might be needed, rest up, and then get back to accomplishing your goals.

Establishing healthy boundaries, realistic expectations and great work ethic is what keeps me balanced even in the most challenging times with prayer and meditation.

I would love to hear your thoughts in the comments. Let’s help our fellow mom entrepreneur out she might be drowning thinking she has to show up as superwoman everyday😩🙅🏽‍♀️.

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How to Transition Effectively to An Entrepreneur

Transitioning as an entrepreneur.

Mindset is imperative when becoming an entrepreneur. Being able to transition is important from a consumer to entrepreneur mindset. If you continue to think like a consumer instead of operating and making money like a business owner, your business will surely fail. You can have all the resources and tools at your fingertips and still mean nothing. Work on your mindset! In this blog I’ll share a few tips to help you transition. Let’s dive right into it.

1.) Change your mindset!

2.) Understand that you deserve to be a successful entrepreneur.

3.) You are equipped.

4.) Be willing to invest in yourself and put the necessary work in to be successful.

5.) Understand success is not an overnight process, it takes time and work.

6.) Show up, even when you don’t feel like it. Separate your feelings from your business.

7.) If your business is viable, be willing to be committed and consistent.

It’s just that simple. Make the commitment to transition effectively. Blessings beautiful people!

Actionable Goals In 2022

Actionable goals in 2022. steps to obtain your goals for the upcoming year.

Going into the New Year, there are a few things you want to put in place if not already in place. There are a few steps I came up with to encourage you to get on track for the New Year. I truly hope this helps you along your journey to accomplishing your goals, whatever they maybe. So, let’s get right into it.

1.) Pray & meditate to be lead by God to direct you with your goals. This is an important process for myself when goal setting. Doing this I usually don’t go wrong.

2.) Think about something you are passionate about. Figure out your purpose and walk in your sphere of genius. Add this to your goals.

3.) Put a time on your goals. Measure them. When do you expect to execute these goals?

4.) Plan, what does it take to make this goal happen? What are somethings you need to put in place in order to reach your goals in a timely manner. (When you fail to plan, you plan to fail). The planning phase is important as well.

5.) Be realistic, life happens and be easy on yourself.

6.) Have a plan B in place in case plan A doesn’t workout. Same goal but other ways to get to it if plan A doesn’t work.

7.) Put it all on a vision board. The Bible says, write the vision and make it plan. If you’re a single mother this is a great opportunity to include your children in teaching them young how to set goals and accomplish them.

Bonus…

Always be willing to adjust and adapt but continue to go after your goal if you feel this is something God put on your heart and you’re passionate about it. Delay is not denial, it will happen if you stay consistent, show up and trust God!

The Secret Business Start Up for Floridians

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Are you looking for extra income?

Extra income for the holidays?

Would you like to make your dream a reality of becoming an entrepreneur?

But don’t know where to start.

Tired of working overtime.

You would like to call the shots with at least one of your jobs.

You would like to own your time & freedom eventually?

And fire your Boss!

If you’re a person who enjoys do-it-yourself projects.

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You don’t even have a dream.

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See you on the other side new entrepreneur!

3 Mistakes I Made When Starting My Business

Mistakes can be costly and waste precious time. Learn from my mistakes when setting up your business and establishing business credit.

When I first started my journey into entrepreneurship, I made lots of costly mistakes and lost lots of money. After investing in myself by researching countless hours, spending lots of money on courses. Because I didn't know what I was doing initially I made pivotal mistakes with my business. The three mistakes I made were simple but can cause a business to be denied business credit.

Let's get right into it.

1.) I didn't have a business address.

2.) I didn't have a business phone number.

3.) I didn't have a business email address.

These things seem so simple but important when establishing business credit for your business. As people say, credit is King, I say business credit is Queen. The thing I needed was someone to guide me through the process of setting up by business correctly to establish business credit. I didn't understand the process of credit. Honestly, I didn't understand credit at all. As a Business Coach, it has been my passion to help everyday aspiring entrepreneurs set up their businesses correctly to get on track to obtain business credit and assess other business credit situations. If you need more help during this process contact me at info@shakeyalconsultingllc.com

How You Can Start A Business Almost Instantly

"Starting a business isn't easy, mistakes can be made, they may be costly and waste precious time."

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You’ve always dreamed of starting a business but are unsure where to start and what business to start.

It can be hard starting a business without the proper guidance. Mistakes can be made and can be costly.

Having the right person on your team to assist you throughout this process not only saves you time, energy, and costly mistakes.

When you search for a Business Coach, you search for someone with experience who will help you through this process in a timely manner and save you money.

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If you know you would like to work with me in a private setting virtually and fast-track your business set up in one day reach out to me at info@shakeyalconsultingllc.com. Checkout my website for other do-it-yourself services @ www.shakeyalconsultingllc.com.

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Do You Have A Business Checking Account?

Have a business but no business checking account. This in-depth guide will walk you through the process to opening a business checking account especially if you have anxiety during interviews. Be prepared with this guide during the process. No longer commingle your business funds with your personal funds, treat your business like a business. this is your first step to building business credit.

Do you have a business but no business checking account?

Unsure of how to open a business checking account and what is needed.

Accept your business transactions through your bank account. That’s a hard no!

You would like your business to be legally ready to obtain business credit cards, loans, grants, etc.

Where will they send the money?

They can’t put the money in your checking account.

Let’s talk about it.

No longer treat your business as a side hustle.

Take your business seriously as you take everything else.

Start by having simple things in place to open a business checking account and get your business on track to obtaining business funding.

Get serious about your business. It’s your time! You deserve the chance to bet on yourself. And treating your business like a business and not a side hustle.

If this sounds like you and if you’re ready to run your business like a business.

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My eBook, Essential Information Needed When Opening A Business Checking Account Guide, is an awesome place to start!

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5 Tips To Be Successful With A Home Care Business

a few tips to become successful when starting a home care business.

Let’s get right into it…

1.) Research your area and make sure there’s a demand for it.

2.) Make sure you’re licensed with your state.

3.) Obtain business insurance.

This allows you to stand out.

4.) Do Market Research.

Know your audience, what they like and expect. What problem you can solve for them. Know your competitors and what they have to offer as well. Figure out what they are doing well and lacking in.

5.) Network with Case Managers, Social Workers, Hospitals, Rehab and Skilled Nursing Facilities. Foster great relationships with them and your community. Word of mouth can take you far.

Bonus…

Obtain a certificate of Exemption for your home care agency if you as the owner would like to provide personal care for your clients. Remember, get out there and be visible, no one will know you exist if they don’t know or see you. Get out in your community, be apart of health and job fairs. Partner with organizations in your community. Just know you got this, believe in yourself and put some work in!

7 Keys to Becoming Unstuck

In life, there will be times we become stuck, discouraged, complacent, baffled, perplexed, bewildered, and downright confused. No one is exempt. Unfortunately, at some point in our lives, we will all go through a period of being stuck. What are some of the reasons and what do you do when this happens?

Reasons we become stuck: fear is a major reason we become stuck, fear of the unknown or future, mediocrity, settling, excuses, negative attitude, feelings of unworthiness, inner circle and support system or lack thereof.

1.)  Change your attitude, mindset and speak some things into the atmosphere. (We bring about what we think about consistently. Also known as the Laws of Attraction. As it is written in the Bible, Romans 4:17, “…Calleth those things which be not as though they were.”) Proverbs 18:21 Death and life are in the power of the tongue…Speak into your life and frame your world. Positive affirmations can be instrumental in the process of becoming unstuck. Speak positive affirmations over yourself daily, especially when you are in good spirits. This can also assist when negative thought patterns plague you, change them out with positive thought patterns or positive affirmations.

2.)  Take a mental break (A mental break is different from a mini-break or vacation. Understand because you take a break from work does not always mean you take time out to relax your mind. Some people still check emails and do work on their vacations and days off. Relax, mediate taking time to wind down from the hustle and bustle of life.) Take the time to be refreshed and restored. Your body and mind depend on it, in order for you to reach your highest potential. You cannot reach your highest potential being tired and exhausted.

3.)  Take a mini-break (taking time to reevaluate self, life, goals, aspirations, and dreams)

4.)  Believe that you are qualified and deserve to be here. A major part of this depends on your inner circle. They can either encourage, push and confirm your potential or be judgmental, negative, and discouraging. Always reevaluate your inner circle. Your connection can determine your destination. At all times, have a goal to be connected to the right people and place.

5.)  Believe that someone somewhere needs your story and helps

6.)  Write the vision (your plan, goals, aspirations, and dreams) If you can conceive it or even think of it, write it. Step out in faith. Create a vision board, this can include short-term and long-term goals, scriptures, positive affirmations, a collage of pictures. Things you have a desire to see in your life. Look at this vision board daily.

7.)  Just do it (Get out there and make it happen) use whatever resources you have then critiqued it later or adjust when able to do.

Sometimes we find ourselves unhappy and frustrated with life, in that time of despair, reminisce on happy thoughts. Think about things that will put you in a happy space, be appreciative for the little things, like waking up this morning, having children, having a job, etc. There are plenty of things we could look at and be grateful for. Yes, some days will be challenging because life isn’t perfect, even at that moment understand that you are still here. Having the opportunity to make that very moment better depending on your actions. Keep in mind reactions of today can be the consequences of tomorrow. Life is full of endless opportunities. Which one will you take seize?

Think about this, oftentimes you are stuck because you are different, set apart, and a trendsetter not understanding your role and how to get to your destiny. There must be a balance don’t bite off more than you can chew. Don’t get me wrong you can multi-task and have multiple goals and aspirations but prioritize what is important and not at the expense of your family.

It is important to know things will happen in your life, rather good or bad, the question will be, will the events stagnate you or will you be determined to push through finding your inner strength. How do you find your inner strength? First, be true to yourself, no one knows you like yourself and God. Understand that God loves you and that you are special in his eyes. I am a firm believer in faith, understanding that there is a power greater than my control and comprehension. Don’t be a people pleaser, you can’t please everyone, and everyone won’t always agree with you. This is ok. As a people pleaser, you give away your power. Understand your worth, get to know yourself, enjoy being around you and take care of yourself. If you are broken down mentally and physically there is no way you can help anyone else. Not to be redundant, but self-care is important on the journey to finding your inner strength. Take time to stop and smell the roses. It’s your time, believe that you are no longer stuck and that you can do anything you put your mind to. Always remember you have purpose and destiny is calling. Be blessed!

Finding The True Woman In You

At times fear can grip you and cause you to stagnate. Excuses and procrastination are distracters to your destiny and path to greatness. What has been my saving grace is my support system, which consists of my family with my mom being my biggest supporter? One thing about my mom and dad, even when I felt like giving up on myself at different times in my life they always pushed me through it. Self-doubt is like cancer, it eats away at your self-worth and greatness.

In every little girl, there is a woman waiting to come out, just waiting for her chance at life. To explore her talents and opportunities.

When you truly find the woman in you, there will no longer be a question of what you should do or allow in your life. Why? Because at this point, you have enough self-worth that even if something is a part of your life, that isn’t right, you understanding the process of annihilation if needed. Basically, you have to get rid of it.

No need for validation, understanding that once you consult God and your significant other and you are at peace, that is all that matters.

Sadly, some ladies never make it on their journey to discovering the woman inside.

It’s a new day, new opportunities to make things right.

We often feel that what we are going through at the time is bigger than the world itself and that everything in our life stops. However, life goes on whether we like it or not, bills must be paid, children must be attended to, and life happens.

You must have a vision for your life. The Bible says, write the vision and make it plain. (Habakkuk 2:2). Take time to work on your vision, dreams, and aspirations no matter what life brings you.

They say when life gives you lemons, make lemonade. (Author Unknown)

You are the solution to someone else’s problem. Someone is depending on you to become the true woman you are designed to be. The longer you wait, it could lead to someone dying. This is how crucial it is to you finding yourself could be.

What makes you different? What makes you stand out? What is your purpose on earth? These are questions to ponder.

Often times we settle, settle in toxic relationships, dead-end jobs, mediocrity never expecting anything great or better.

Sometimes the call is greater than you. When you are set apart and different, you won’t fit in. Remember diamonds were made through intense pressure and heat, and they can be rough around the edges.

It always seems impossible until it’s done, as said by Nelson Mandela.

Don’t live with regrets and only live in the present.

The Bible says, in Hosea 4:6 My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge. What are you lacking? Have you invested in yourself through research, education, being mentored and self-improvement exercises such as reading books and listening to podcasts, to name a few?

Women are the ones to change the world, why do I say that because women are the nurturers, they groom and teach the children prior to becoming adults. Changing one life changes a community and can change the world.

When asked what surprised him most about humanity the Dalai Lama answered… “Man sacrifices his health in order to make money. Then he sacrifices money to recuperate his health. And then he is so anxious about the future that he does not enjoy the present; the result being that he does not live in the present or the future; he lives as if he is never going to die and then he dies having never really lived.”

Sometimes we find ourselves unhappy and frustrated with life, in that time of despair, reminisce on happy thoughts. Think about things that will put you in a happy space, be appreciative for the little things, like waking up this morning, having children, having a job, etc. There are plenty of things we could look at and be grateful for. Yes, some days will be challenging because life isn’t perfect, even at that moment understand that you are still here. Having the opportunity to make that very moment better depending on your actions. Keep in mind reactions of today can be the consequences of tomorrow. Life is full of endless opportunities. Which one will you take to seize? We always have time to make things right if we are breathing and now is always time to seize every opportunity whether it’s spending more time building memories with your family, bettering yourself to be you, you desire to be, and many other countless things. You know what opportunities are right for you to seize them and make them happen. Just do it even if you are fearful and feel you don’t have a plan. Find a mentor and accountability partner, someone who will assist you on your journey to self-advancement. You are your best investment and don’t allow anyone to make you think differently or that you aren’t qualified enough.

You must have a vision and purpose for your life. Don’t just live for the present because the future is coming whether we like it or not. So, as I said before, the decisions you make now will be either your consequences or successes for the future, your tomorrow. Be intentional in everything you do and dream on purpose. Understanding that you have a purpose given by the Creator to do amazing things. As I end, I leave with you some famous quotes hoping they resonate and ignite your spirit to walk into your destiny and purpose.

“Change your thoughts and you can change your world.” Believe in yourself! Have faith in your abilities! Without a humble but reasonable confidence in your own powers, you cannot be successful or happy. (Norman Vincent Peale) 

“If you can’t fly, then run, if you can’t run, then walk, if you can’t walk, then crawl, but whatever you do, you have to keep moving forward.” Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.

“There comes a time when one must take a position that is neither safe, nor politic, nor popular, but he must take it because conscience tells him it is right.” Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.

“Everybody can be great… Because anybody can serve. You don’t have to have a college degree to serve. You don’t have to make your subject and verb agree to serve. You only need a heart full of grace. A soul generated by love.” Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.

“Challenges make you discover things about yourself that you never really knew.” Cicely Tyson

“The moment anyone tries to demean or degrade you in any way, you have to know how great you are. Nobody would bother to beat you down if you were not a threat.” Cicely Tyson.

“I am not a quitter. I will fight until I drop. It is just a matter of having some faith in the fact that as long as you are able to draw breath in the universe, you have a chance.” Cicely Tyson.

“You cannot live to please everyone else. You have to edify, educate and fulfill your own dreams and destiny.” Viola Davis.

Several quotes from Oprah Winfrey…

“The more you praise and celebrate your life, the more there is in life to celebrate.”

“Surround yourself with only people who are going to lift you higher.”

“Where there is no struggle, there is no strength.”

“The whole point of being alive is to evolve into the complete person you were intended to be.”

“Doing the best at this moment puts you in the best place for the next moment.” Oprah Winfrey.

Whatever you do today determines your tomorrow. Shakeya.

References:

 The Bible (King James Version)

No Explanation Needed!

How do you feel, being questioned about everything you do? Not good, huh?  No validation is needed or explanations, remember this. Let's get right to the point. No one is questioning your every move but you. You feel that you have to explain to everyone what you are doing, who you are, and what you think. Stop it! It's ok to be quiet at times. You don't always have to answer every question or react to every action. My mom, a wise woman, told me that. It helped a lot, trust me. The Bible says to be slow to speak. I am still learning this, lol.

                 Often, we need validation or have our actions confirmed. Why? Unfortunately, it has to do with feelings of being inadequate, not smart enough, hard on ourselves, feeling down, depressed with self-doubt. You could have the highest degree, but if you are not confident in yourself, who you are, and the decisions you make, it won't ever matter. It's ok to discuss and get feedback from others who are wise and make sound decisions such as your spouse, friends, colleagues, and mentors. However, don't continue to second guess yourself or have to have someone's opinion before taking action with your plans. If you feel that God has led you to do something, did your research, prayed about it, and spoke with your significant other then that settles it. Especially if you feel at peace with your decision. You might feel some anxiety or fear. There will be delays, issues because life happens. But don't let that stop you, you will make mistakes, but we learn from them. There will be times you have to take action and people won't always understand or agree with it and it is ok. However, do what God is leading you to do because you have to give an account to him.

                 Albert Einstein was an innovator of his time and was most likely misunderstood. However, generations and centuries later we are still talking about and enjoying his inventions. Think about that. What are you contemplating that people don't understand? You might be the next trendsetter in your family, area, and generation. I say think on that because it is serious, someone somewhere is waiting on you to step out in faith and trust God. To do what he is leading you to do. Never forget that! Remember to have Faith over Fear. Now reach the goals and destiny you were designed to reach! You were born with a purpose. Believe in yourself and continued blessings!

When You're Dreams Won't Let You Sleep and Your Healed From Within

What do I mean by this topic? It’s simple when you are passionate about your dreams, your dreams won’t let you sleep. You stay up all night tossing and turning with thoughts in your mind. Sometimes it feels as if your mind won’t shut off and allow you to rest. You lay there with idea after idea running through your mind. Often times you find yourself brain dumping, writing in your journal, or simply recording a voice note or even a song, lol. Yes, sometimes my inspiration comes from songs. Music calms and inspires me all at the same time.

I can remember sleeping all day after working even on my days off because I was depressed. I didn’t want to face the reality of my life, so I would just sleep to pass the time. Not understanding I was depressed. I thought because I was going to work, church, school, talking with family on the phone, or going to visit my family that I was ok. Sadly, I wasn’t. The more I stayed up, I thought of things that weren’t right. I knew God had more for me, but life just kept happening. I said all that to say, now, I’m healed from within. I know my worth, happy about life and the possibilities to come. I’m at peace with myself and where I am in life. I’m grateful for the simple things in life, like my family, my health, love, joy, and successes. Being grateful can put you in an entirely different space, remember that.

I say this in the humblest way, some people aren’t lazy. They might be depressed, so they sleep, or take drugs, alcohol and are promiscuous in order to numb the pain of life. They are talented and unique. Unfortunately, they might not have the support, courage, strength, knowledge, and right resources to assist them with their purpose and journey. I invite you to look at yourself and your situation and be honest. Heal from within, heal from that little hurt boy or girl who was rejected, abused, misused, abandoned, and unloved. Heal and be set free. You might need therapy, medications, or just align with a great support system and people who will hold you accountable and won’t allow you to make excuses. Most importantly, they won’t allow you to give up on yourself and your dreams. Vow to yourself to fight from this day forward to becoming the best version of yourself. Fight for you, fight for the next generation. Because when you heal, you break the curse off the next generation and allow them to heal and be better.

Let’s work on being the best version of ourselves and walk in our purpose and destiny. To truly be who God designed and created us to be.

Remember, genuine success is not about money, houses, land, resources but about peace, happiness, healing, wholeness, love, joy, favor, and abundance.

These are just my thoughts; my goal is to inspire and encourage someone. Even if this just inspires one person that will be outstanding as well. Because one person can change one family, one family can change one community and one city, the list can go on and on. Let’s be the change we want to see! Success starts in the mind, shift your mindset to be positive. Be blessed, beautiful people!