No Explanation Needed!

How do you feel, being questioned about everything you do? Not good, huh?  No validation is needed or explanations, remember this. Let's get right to the point. No one is questioning your every move but you. You feel that you have to explain to everyone what you are doing, who you are, and what you think. Stop it! It's ok to be quiet at times. You don't always have to answer every question or react to every action. My mom, a wise woman, told me that. It helped a lot, trust me. The Bible says to be slow to speak. I am still learning this, lol.

                 Often, we need validation or have our actions confirmed. Why? Unfortunately, it has to do with feelings of being inadequate, not smart enough, hard on ourselves, feeling down, depressed with self-doubt. You could have the highest degree, but if you are not confident in yourself, who you are, and the decisions you make, it won't ever matter. It's ok to discuss and get feedback from others who are wise and make sound decisions such as your spouse, friends, colleagues, and mentors. However, don't continue to second guess yourself or have to have someone's opinion before taking action with your plans. If you feel that God has led you to do something, did your research, prayed about it, and spoke with your significant other then that settles it. Especially if you feel at peace with your decision. You might feel some anxiety or fear. There will be delays, issues because life happens. But don't let that stop you, you will make mistakes, but we learn from them. There will be times you have to take action and people won't always understand or agree with it and it is ok. However, do what God is leading you to do because you have to give an account to him.

                 Albert Einstein was an innovator of his time and was most likely misunderstood. However, generations and centuries later we are still talking about and enjoying his inventions. Think about that. What are you contemplating that people don't understand? You might be the next trendsetter in your family, area, and generation. I say think on that because it is serious, someone somewhere is waiting on you to step out in faith and trust God. To do what he is leading you to do. Never forget that! Remember to have Faith over Fear. Now reach the goals and destiny you were designed to reach! You were born with a purpose. Believe in yourself and continued blessings!